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Senior Swingers Features: Meet, Chat and Take Your Time

Everything you can do in the lounge, and what VIP adds when you want more.

From first hello to a drink with another couple

Senior Swingers Lounge is built for the unhurried. You meet people on your own terms, in your own order, and nothing happens until you say so.

  1. Set up a profile that sounds like you

    Choose your photos, say if you come as a couple or a single, and list what you are open to. Add as much or as little as you like.

  2. Let the daily matches come to you

    The lounge suggests people each day by weighing your age range, who you want to meet, how near they are, how recently they were about and the interests you share.

  3. Talk in private

    Send messages, join a chat room or open a private group chat of up to 50 people if you are organising something. Your phone number never leaves your pocket.

  4. Meet when it feels right

    Verified badges and behaviour ratings tell you who you are dealing with before you arrange a drink. The safety page lists every protection.

Classic, VIP and VIP Plus

Every member starts on Classic: a full profile, browsing, daily matches, polls and quizzes, a limited number of messages each day, and the right to reply to anyone who writes to you. Free ID verification comes with it.

VIP takes the daily message limit away and adds advanced search filters, chat rooms, private group chats, a list of who likes you and a rewind button for profiles you passed.

VIP Plus builds on VIP with exclusive matches, first-in-line treatment for your messages and likes, and a spot at the top of the match stack. Boosts and Super Match can be added on top. Plans and prices are on the pricing page.

What each level lets you do

The main differences between the three memberships
You want toClassicVIPVIP Plus
Browse and get daily matchesYesYesYes
Send messagesA set number a dayAs many as you likeAs many as you like
Search by city and distanceNoYesYes
Join chat roomsNoYesYes
Start a group chatNoYes, up to 50Yes, up to 50
See who likes youNoYesYes
Be matched firstNoNoYes

Checks that keep it genuine

You should know who you are talking to, and so should they.

  • Free ID verification puts a badge on your profile.
  • A short live video check with a moderator proves you are you, with no documents.
  • Admin validation lets the team approve your profile without paperwork.
  • Sensitive photos stay blurred until the person looking decides to look.

On a phone, a tablet or a laptop

The lounge works in any browser. On a phone you can save it to the home screen, so it opens like an app without a download. Native iPhone and Android apps exist in selected markets only. The guides on the main site are open to you too: start with swinging over 50 and swinger etiquette.

Feature questions from our members

Do I need VIP to talk to people?

No. Classic members can message a set number of people every day and reply to anyone who writes, VIP members included. VIP adds unlimited messaging, chat rooms and group chats.

Can I use the lounge without a smartphone?

Yes. It runs in the browser on a laptop or desktop computer as well as on a phone or tablet, so you can sit down at a screen with a cup of tea and take your time.

What is a Super Match?

A highlighted message, available as a VIP Plus add-on, that the person you send it to always sees first. They can reply straight to it, which opens a normal conversation.

Settle in and look around

Join on Classic and see who the lounge suggests today.

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